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A Small Goodbye
For 35+ years, I had three tiny warts on my neck. They weren’t beautiful. They weren’t ugly. They were simply part of me. They were there when I was a little girl growing up without emotional stability. Without a mother steady enough to guide me through fear, confusion, or self-doubt. I learned early to sit with my own emotions. To survive quietly. To build strength without being shown how. No one walked me gently into womanhood. I figured it out. They were there when I marri
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The Day My 9-Year-Old Asked for a Seat at the Decision Table
Today during one of our regular bonding sessions , my 9-year old said something that stayed with me long after the walk ended. First, a little context about these bonding sessions. Every now and then we go for a walk or a short drive with no agenda — just conversation. These are not lectures. Not “parent advice” sessions. They’re simply spaces where we talk about life. We talk about things we did well, things we could have done better, our wins, losses, mistakes, fears, frust
5 days ago5 min read


Renewing My Vow: From Black Ink to Living Color 💖🦋
From black ink to vibrant color—this is the story of how I renewed my vow to love myself. The Beginning: A Promise in Ink In 2023, I made one of the most important promises of my life. Not to someone else, not to the world, but to myself. I etched it onto my skin, on my hand where I would always see it: the words “I love me” with a heart and butterfly. A promise made in 2023—simple, bold, in black ink. It wasn’t just art. It was a vow. The butterfly symbolized transformation
Sep 12, 20253 min read


The High Road: Staying True to Myself, Even When It Hurts.
On choosing kindness, empathy, and authenticity in a world that often tests them. A scenic rural road winds through the lush, rolling...
Sep 11, 20254 min read


Brushstrokes of Wisdom: Embracing Life's Canvas with Maria
On December 16, 2023, marking our 21st wedding anniversary, I arranged a 'pick your paint' session for my family. The rain added a poetic...
Dec 18, 20233 min read


"Checkmate and Life Lessons: Navigating a Chess Tournament Journey with a First-Grader"
Today was a big day for my seven-year-old—he entered his first chess tournament; neither my husband nor I are seasoned chess players, and...
Dec 3, 20233 min read
"From Pink Slips to Green Cards: My Hilarious Odyssey Through Layoffs and Immigration"
Creating a space to document my daily emotions? Well, that's a fancy way of saying I needed a place to vent about life's rollercoaster of...
Sep 14, 20234 min read
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